On iPhone, add The Reconnect to your Home Screen (Share → Add to Home Screen) and sign in from there so notifications work.
An invitation
Someone wants to date you again.
Quick honesty from the team at Girls Get Off: this isn't couples therapy and there's nothing to fix about you. It's 30 days of small ways to reconnect: one task a night, under 20 minutes, on both your phones at 7pm. You take turns leading, so half the nights you run the show. Week one is so easy it barely counts. And you two could win a $1,000 date night.
30 nights. Each night at 7pm a small sealed task lands in this app for both of you. You open it together, do it (most take under 10 minutes), and tap done. Miss a night? There are catch-up days built in. Nothing lands before you're ready for it, week one is deliberately gentle, and you can stop any time. Your data stays between the two of you.
On iPhone, tap Share then Add to Home Screen to install The Reconnect as an app, then open it from your home screen.
Let's get you two set up
This lives on your phone. Your partner sets up on theirs with the same start date.
Thursday, 13 August
Set for you. One cohort, everyone starts Day 1 together.
The 7-character code they got when they set up the challenge.
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You two are paired
Your first task lands on Day 1, sealed until you open it together. Turn notifications on so you don't miss it.
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They install the app, sign in with their own email, tap “I have an invite code”, and enter this. No second purchase, one code per couple.
Week 1
Day 1 of 30
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Tonight's task is sealed
Open it together. Tap to break the seal.
Leads tonight
The task
Day complete. Flame stays lit 🔥
On time, both of you. That's what wins the big one.
If tonight opens something bigger than a prompt can hold, that's not failure. It's information. Pause, come back when you're ready. If you two are carrying something heavy, a couples therapist is the upgrade, not the alternative.
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$1,000 date night up for grabs
Most tasks on time + the day-30 review with the most heart.
You're paired and ready
Day 1 soon
Your first sealed task lands on Day 1. Everyone in the cohort starts together.
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$1,000 date night up for grabs
Most tasks on time + the day-30 review with the most heart.
Day 30 · The letters ✓
You made it.
30 days. One flatmate situation, formally dissolved.
Your words matter twice: they're your entry for the $1,000 date night, and they're what convinces the next couple to stop being flatmates too.
You're in the running 🏆
Winner announced within 7 days. Keep the Sunday ritual in the meantime. You chose it for a reason.
0 days
Your shared flame. It only stays lit if you both show up.
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On time
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Caught up
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In cohort
This month
Missed a day? That's fine, catch-up days exist. Missed once, not failed.
The Sunday Spin
Finish a week and you've earned a spin. The wheel picks the weekend's treat, and who gets treated.
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Finish this week's tasks to unlock your spin.
This weekend
Delivered by Sunday night. Next week the wheel might return the favour.
This cohort's prize
$1,000
date night, on us
Most tasks on time + the day-30 review with the most heart. Grows as more couples join.
Sample standings. Live cohort rankings connect when your cohort opens. Team names stay anonymous.
Settings
Invite your partner
They aren’t in yet. Send them this code, they install the app, sign in, and tap “I have an invite code”.
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You two
Fixed for the whole cohort. Everyone starts together.
7pm reminders
A nightly nudge at 7pm so the sealed task never gets missed, sent to both your phones.
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Your data
Everything The Reconnect knows lives only on this device: your names, your start date, and which nights you completed.